CREATE A CONSCIOUS MARRIAGE™

Find Your Way Back & Better to One Another

Your marriage has everything to do with you. From what you brought with you into this relationship, and the unfolding parts of yourself that show up as you walk through this life, it’s the home for the ever-evolving sense and essence of you.

As you lean into this life with one another, becoming consciously aware of this expanding version of who you are is the key to being deeply, and consciously, connected in your partnership.

This course, and this work, will teach you how to do that.

As we walk through this life, our partners become
mirrors of reflection back to us. When we learn how to become aware, we learn how these reflections become opportunities for deep self and relationship growth.

Did I marry the wrong person?
Is there something wrong with me?

If you find yourself asking this question, then it’s time to take a closer look at why you’re asking it.
Feeling alone and disconnected in your relationship is usually the culprit and could mean a lot of things.
If you're longing for depth and connection, and want to put an end to ambivalence and uncertainty, this course will do that.

The Solution: Create a Conscious Marriage™

We are meant to grow and to keep growing. But we aren’t meant to do it alone.
Create a Conscious Marriage™ is designed to help couples reach expanded levels of connection and the intimacy they desire by becoming acutely aware of their sense of self, their vulnerabilities, and perceived limitations as well as the stories they’ve created about their partners. This course is going to turn your marriage on it’s own head. In the best way possible.

Grow

Discover the expanded sense of self that's waiting for you in your life and learn how to break through your own glass ceiling to become the most radically honest version of you.

Communicate

Turn your self-growth into relationship growth by learning how to have deeper, more meaningful conversation that honors you, your partner and your marriage.

Connect

Take your new approaches and deep connection together to a whole new level that's incredible, realistic, sustainable and sexy.

Lisa Pisha, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Relationship Coach

Hi there!

I’m Lisa!

I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Relationship Coach + the Creator of Create a Conscious Marriage™. I’ve spent thousands of hours helping couples as a therapist and relationship coach working in-person and virtually one-on-one with clients all over the world.

Now, I’m going to help you have the deepest, most connected marriage you desire from your own couch and the comfort of your home.

Let me help you Create a Conscious Marriage™ with some step-by-step instruction, clear, concise tools, blow-your-mind mental and emotional reframes that will change the way you think, and how you show up in the world, all with the kind of fun, warm, and light-hearted support you need in order to do the work that’s needed to next-level this romance.

The 8 Modules of
Create a Conscious Marriage™:

Module One

Find Yourself, Look Again
Let’s identify who you once were, who you are now and who you want to be in your marriage. We’ll unpack the real, ever-evolving you to discover the uniqueness only you can bring into this relationship.
Module Two

Say it Out Loud, Speak Truth in Your Marriage
Let’s identify who you once were, who you are now and who you want to be in your marriage. We’ll unpack the real, ever-evolving you to discover the uniqueness only you can bring into this relationship.
Module Three

Getting Curious to Get Connected
Learn very specific, very simple ways to move from judgement (for yourself and others) to curiosity in a way that makes people interested, enthusiastic and engaged with you. Insert more loving, intimate convos here.
Module Four

Supporting the Person Your Partner is Trying to Be
Examine how to "hold space" and learn why it’s vital for you and your marriage to do so. Set the stage for the most vulnerable, authentic & connected conversations you can have by paving the way for honesty, transparency and even admiration!

Module Five

Navigating Disagreement & Conflict Together
Learn how to actually get somewhere with all those nasty or pesky and annoying disagreements that pop in. Plus, ways to move through conflict in a way that moves your marriage forward.
Module Six

Cultivating Physical & Emotional Intimacy
Learn how to actually get somewhere with all those nasty or pesky and annoying disagreements that pop in. Plus, ways to move through conflict in a way that moves your marriage forward.
Module Seven

Getting Rid of Land Mines in Your Marriage
Take a deep dive in how your triggers, aka shame stories, can show up at any moment, anytime and any place. They’re not a reflection of your work, your strength, or how well you and your partner are doing. They’re a reflection of your humanity.
Module Eight

MODULE EIGHT
Keeping Your Marriage Consciously Connected
You’ve made amazing steps toward creating a conscious marriage. Now what? How do you keep moving forward with this new intimacy and connection? Take the final, vital steps in keeping your connection strong and growing.

Create a Conscious Marriage Course Material

Here’s what you’ll learn:

Discover the stories you have of yourself that have been limiting, ego-serving and fear-based and disassemble them in order to lean into love and deep connection
Learn how the most influential experiences you’ve had still influence your everyday and how to become aware of the ways they impact the way you show up in the world
Know how to access your truest resonance using your body and your voice and say what you mean and need to say in a loving, compassionate and neutral way
Find yourself in way-better-than-surface-level conversations with your spouse that create new shared meaning and depth

Cultivate immeasurable amounts of grace and work through resentment, anger or disappointment in ourselves or one another
Learn how to build shared connection intentionally, naturally and meaningfully so it lasts beyond just a habit change but is an entire system change
Experience a new level of intimacy on an emotional and physical level by discovering the ways you and your partner feel the safest and most secure with one another
Feel authentically and intrinsically wholehearted in your marriage and walk through your life into every relationship with knowing and intention

Frequently Asked Questions

Interested but still have a few questions?
Find answers to our most frequently asked questions below.

Create a Conscious Marriage™ has been re-designed to include 8 weekly modules with 1 lesson per module and 3 live 90-minute Q + A calls with Lisa.
Each lesson contains at least one downloadable resource such as a worksheet, conversation prompts, journal exercise or additional resource to help you and your partner be as successful as possible.
The course is designed to be completed at your pace and one lesson is released per week for 8 weeks.
There are 8 modules in the course with 1 lesson per module for a total of 8 lessons.
I know how valuable time is and how hard it can be to come by which is why I created this course with exercises and lessons you can actually work into your everyday.
You can spend as much as an hour or as little as about 30 minutes on the lessons, and they're yours to keep. So you pick the best time and day to utilize them!
The live Q+A calls are 90-minutes and there are 3 of these spread out throughout the 8 week course. These calls are recorded and you'll be emailed the recording once it's done processing.
Create a Conscious Marriage™ is a beautiful addition to couples therapy because it will connect the dots between the work you're doing from session to session.
The work you and your partner do outside the therapy room is habit-changing and habit-forming and is what's going to create lasting change in your marriage.
CACM™ is a perfect addition to couples therapy and can be used in conjunction with therapy or on its own.

You can absolutely take this by yourself! While CACM™ was designed with couples in mind and the lessons are created for couples, change in a marriage can happen, and often does, with one person.
All of the modules and lessons can be completed independently of your partner. Regardless of how they're completed, CACM™ will bring authenticity, closeness and depth in all of your relationships in life as well!
For starters, no tricks and no gimmicks.
This course is about building connection in your marriage by putting in the effort in a guided, directed and incredibly successful and very fun way.
Getting your partner on-board comes with an understanding of what this is and why it's important now. Your "why" is something you're going to want to carry with you through this course and beyond, so I'd recommend spending some time really digging in to what you want to feel when you take this course and when you've completed it and start there.
Instead of saying "we're disconnected" or "our marriage is suffering," try to stay focused on what you need and what you're hoping for: "I want to learn more about myself and I want to take you with me on this so you can see me the way I want to see myself," feels and sounds a lot different than any ultimatums or bargaining.
Many of us assume (sometimes correctly) that our partner will want nothing to do with anything related to "relationship-building" or "marriage talk." I've found however that most partners are waiting to be heard in a non-judgmental, caring space. Which is why you might have to lead by example.
It ABSOLUTELY can. This course is meant to meet you where you're at on your marriage journey and it will challenge you to think about things differently which is the best part. I'm not trying to convince you to stay in your marriage or leave. This course will help you ask the right kinds of questions of yourself and your partner to uncover the more meaningful answers for yourself.
At this time I'm not able to offer any payment plan options.