PSYCHOTHERAPIST, RELATIONSHIP COACH & WRITER
The deepest, most connected relationships, are the conscious ones.
What I believe, and what 20 years of clinical work has confirmed, is that the most fulfilling relationships, the ones that actually feel alive, are the conscious ones.
Conscious partnerships don't happen by accident. They're built by people who are willing to be curious, self-reflective, to learn about themselves deeply, and to bring that same curiosity and desire to see their partner as clearly as they can, over and over with intention.
That's the work. And that's what everything I do is built around, whether you're in my therapy office, working with me one-on-one, or moving through a program on your own.
Before you burn the house down,
let’s talk.
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Therapy
Individual & couples therapy at my Naperville, IL practice or online. For those ready to do deep, supported work with a licensed therapist.
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Coaching
1:1 relationship and life coaching for individuals who want focused, personalized support outside of a therapy setting.
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Courses
Create a Conscious Marriage™
An 8-module self-paced program or live group coaching experience for couples ready to reconnect.
Are you intimately connected to who you are ?
I help introspective men and women have deep, meaningful, intimately connected relationships with one another by becoming incredibly consciously aware of their truest and most authentic self.
This is how we get deep. This is how we grow. Together.
Courses
Reconnect with yourself and your partner from the comfort of your own space with an online course from the comfort of your home. Interactive group options are available as well for additional support.
Coaching + Therapy
Work with me individually and/or with your partner through therapy or coaching, remote or in-person. Flexible scheduling, 30-min, 60-min, 90-min, and 120-minute options are available.
CREATE A CONSCIOUS MARRIAGE™
Find Your Way Back & Better to One Another.
In less than 24 hours, this online course will you have you becoming the most radically authentic version of yourself and in your marriage. Think of it like self-growth on steroids for your marriage.
We are meant to grow and keep growing but we aren’t meant to do it alone.
Learn how to drop the armor and start connecting today.