WELCOME TO MODULE ONE: FIND YOURSELF,

LOOK AGAIN

Module One will focus on helping you identify who you once were, who you are and who you want to be. We'll unpack you and discover the unique you that you bring into this marriage.

Whether you’ve been married for days or years, no matter how long you’ve been with your partner, you are a unique individual that was born of your own purpose and power. As such, every experience from when you were a child to this very present day is yours and yours alone.

While we can share our experiences with others, we have our own very unique, very individualized experiences within them. Even going through life together with your spouse (and especially life with a spouse) is such a uniquely different perspective than the person you’re going through life with.

Sometimes when we’re in relationships for a very long time, we can forget who we are. Who we were before this relationship, who we were as children, daughters, sons, siblings and even employees. Sometimes we’ll even try to ration off parts of ourselves as different people in different circumstances and settings. But who we are in our marriage is a culmination of all of this.

Have you ever reached a point in your life, maybe you're there right now, where you don't recognize yourself anymore? Maybe you've gotten at a place where it's difficult to describe yourself now, your wants, needs, even opinions about things. I get it! We get tired, lost and stop growing.

We bring all of our unique experiences and values into our marriages with us, even though over time we may lose sight of these. It’s vital to your marriage to know what makes you, you. Who you are, what you come with (all of you) and your beliefs, values and ideas. You are important. You are you. You bring YOU into this marriage and no matter how lost you are or feel like you are you are still in there.

In this module, we will work on finding that unique individual so we can understand, learn and honor the person you not only want to be, but truly are. Get ready to dig in to your self and start learning some new things about you!